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I
usually get my inspiration as I'm driving when I cannot write it
down, and as I drove this morning this thought came to me: RUN YOUR
OWN RACE!
I
remember reading a long time ago about how horses when they are
racing don’t care about the other horses; they don’t
look over to see what the next horse is doing. They are focused and
they run their own race.
I
found this quote while looking up ‘run your own race’:
“I
raised you to be a thoroughbred. When thoroughbreds run they wear
blinders to keep their eyes focused straight ahead with no
distractions, no other horses. They hear the crowd but they don’t
listen. They just run their own race. That’s what you have to
do. Don’t listen to anyone comparing you to me or to anyone
else. You just run your own race.” Excerpted from The
Right Words at the Right Time
(Atria Books, January 2004) by Marlo Thomas.
How
does this apply to Law of Attraction? Simple: What are you focusing
on? Is your focus directly on your life and the goals you want to
achieve? Are you spending your time and energy looking straight
ahead towards the life of your dreams, or are you busy looking at
what the next person owns, drives or has achieved?
Oftentimes
we spend our lives judging how much we will do or how much we should
do based on what everyone else around us is doing. A good example of
this is in the workplace or in businesses when people feel they
should stop productivity or feel resentment because coworkers or
partners aren't pulling the same weight…but not everyone has
the same goals and dreams as you do. We don't all have your skills,
visions or hope for the future…We don’t all want the
same things.
So
this message was powerful to me and I asked myself the question ‘How
much more would YOU accomplish if YOU stopped looking over at the
person beside YOU?’
How
do you put on blinders? You mind your own business! You've heard
this everywhere, from Tony Robbins and Rich Dad to Abraham-Hicks.
Minding
your own business isn't a bad thing like most people think. It's
about not worrying about what everyone else is doing or where they
are going, but about what YOU are doing and where YOU are going and
what YOU want to achieve. It's about looking straight ahead and not
shifting that focus. Keep your eyes on the prize!
Law
of Attraction teaches that what you focus on you will attract, so as
you focus on what everyone else is doing or not doing, then you will
get more of that. You need to put on blinders and forget what
everyone else is doing because at the end of the day only you can
change your life!
Are
you truly focused on your own race? A friend of mine has the goal of
attracting 5 million dollars while my goal is attracting 400
million. That is a difference of 395 million dollars. That's a
whole different racetrack altogether… Most people don't
realize that they are running a different race than friends, family
and coworkers, and a lot never reach full potential because they
don't want to stand out. Focusing on your own race means not caring
much about what anyone else does, thinks or says about your visions,
goals, dreams and YOUR LIFE.
As
Will Smith says in the Pursuit of Happyness, “Don't ever let
someone tell you that you can't do something. People can't do
something themselves and they want to tell you that you cannot do it
either.”
Running
your own race means holding on to your dreams and moving towards
them and not letting anyone deter you from your goals or dreams.
Focus
on your own race.
Focus
on your own visions.
Focus
on your own life.
Focus
on your own dreams.
Focus
on YOUR goals and RUN YOUR OWN RACE!
Ophelia
Nicholson is an author and Prosperity Coach, and co-founder of
www.breathingprosperity.com.
Visit our blog at http://blog.breathingprosperity.com
You
can email her at Ophelia@breathingprosperity.com